Judge Who?

Judgements happen to everyone. This can be a judgement given by ones self or a judgement being made of you individually. In today's day and age it is very common to feel insecure do to the fact of being surrounded by quite judgemental people. In the end people need to take a step back and be happy with who they are. If someone chooses to dress a certain way because they feel comfortable in what they are wearing then why should someone's opinion matter. Stay true to who you are as an individual and care less about what insignificant people's opinion of you is.

                                          

Being comfortable in the outfits you put together is very important. If individually you do not feel comfortable wearing something then do not go out in it. There is no need to impress people based on how you feel they will think of you. Comfort for some may not include running shoes, leggings and a sports bra. Many women are very comfortable putting a lot of time into their day to look nice all dressed up. Being comfortable with who you are and not caring about possible judgement is the greatest gift you could ever give yourself as being an individual. Even very well dressed people may feel judged for dressing up even if it is going to the grocery store. Again though, if you feel comfortable in the dress with heals then wear the dress and heals.

 

 Some girls choose to be extremely girly and wear matching outfits that can include dresses, high-heals, purses and so on. Then their are girls who would much rather wear jeans and a simple top. It takes putting aside what others think and taking a stand in order to wear what you want. When you dress out of your comfort zone just to impress people and hope they "judge" you fairly then you yourself will be uncomfortable for the duration of wearing the outfit.


                                                                                      
Another great factor that can go into judgements is whether or not someone should wear something that my not "fit in" with their body or style. It can be hard for someone to want to wear something when they feel as if they do not fit in with dressing a certain way. Personally being proud of your outfit and wearing what you want can be one of the most gratifying feelings in ones day. If simply wearing what you want makes you happy in your fashion life than I personally say be yourself and embrace the happiness of wearing something you love. As seen in the picture above, this model is beautiful and very confident in what she is wearing. Most women would be insecure with wearing a form fitting dress but if you love how you look, embrace it and wear it.


                              
Don't allow people to judge you based on what you're wearing. If you genuinely love what you are wearing then you should not base the opinion of others on your outfits. Love who you are and be happy with who you are. Allowing yourself to love everything about yourself will let you get far in life. Never fall into pressure from others, be happy with the person you were born as.




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